About 10 or 11 years ago, I visited my Opa and Oma in Michigan. They lived on the beach in a spectacular house, and I have many memories of those times when I visited. One day, I happened to be introduced to their neighbors, Mr. and Mrs. Teter. If I remember correctly they were both deaf, but I enjoyed there company beyond what words can describe. I ate lunch with them and often just spent time at their house. I developed a great love for this elderly couple and liked to visit them as frequently as my vacation schedule would allow. Helping them and just being at their house was what I would consider a selfless act. Most people my age are afraid to talk to elderly people. I have never encountered that problem. I would like to share an excerpt of a letter Mrs. Teter sent to me quite a few years ago:
April 28, 2001
Dear Emily,
Thank you for the very nice present. I really do like it. The fragranced candle smells so good. Your GrandDad just brought over your address. He said you will be here in about 2 weeks. I will wait until you come so we can smell it together. It will be so good to see you again and your family. See you soon. Mrs. Darlene Teter
I have fond memories of being over at their house, and my mom would often come and get me because I stayed for quite a while. I remember not wanting to leave. I loved them so much. Sadly, Mr. Teter passed away a few years after I met them, but I am so glad I got to spend as much time with them as I did. I truly think God used me at such a young age to be selfless and invest my time in such a lovely couple, Mr. and Mrs. Teter.
Oh, Emily, what a profound memory. Mr. and Mrs. Teter -- sounds like a great couple for a novel. Undoubtedly, God used you and HE used them in your young life. Being at ease with the elderly is a gift from God --- I would identify with those who perhaps find it a little challenging. Thank you for sharing!
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